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Running Errands with a Toddler in Tow

5 ways to effectively run errands with your children in tow. Moms and experts weigh in on the subject.
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Ways to keep your kids calm, happy, and hissy-fit-free as you check off your to-do list

You do the steering. "Parents need to be what I call the ‘Captain of the Ship’ for their child, and sail around storms rather than scramble to figure out how to handle one when it’s already begun," says Susan Stiffelman, author of Parenting Without Power Struggles and a mom of one in Malibu, California. "Don’t take a tired toddler on ‘just one more errand’ if your instincts tell you she’s going to crumble. Keep your eye on the horizon and steer accordingly."

Give info up front. "I have three toddlers, and although I try to avoid running errands with all of them in tow, sometimes it just has to happen," says Jessica Watson, a mom of five in Lake Orion, Michigan. "I outline expectations in a way my kids can understand before we step foot out of the house—I tell them where we’re going, what we’re doing, and that they’re going to sit in the cart, hold Mommy’s hand, or sit in the stroller." Helping kids anticipate transitions is a very effective tactic, says Eileen Escarce, Ph.D., a psychologist and family coach in Santa Monica, California: "Knowing what’s happening next makes kids feel calm."

Use the drive-through option. "Consider using a drive-through wherever you can—to pick up prescriptions, dry cleaning, dinner, and so on," says Denise Fields, co-author of Toddler 411. "Getting in and out of the car more than three times with a toddler is asking for trouble."

Ask for help. "Some grocery stores will pass balloons out to kids, if you ask," says Brittany Tuttle, a mom of two in Longmont, Colorado. "Those balloons have saved my day more than once."

Have a plan in place. "I have a plan of attack for the grocery store, which includes snagging every freebie we can get—cheese at the deli counter, a cookie at the bakery—and a visit to the lobster tank," says Meagan Vanover, a mom of two in New Haven, Michigan. "We also use the self-checkout, so my kids can help scan items and shoot them down the ‘runway.’ We allow one special treat per store, usually cool fruit snacks or granola bars, but that can be revoked if they don’t stay in the cart. I stick to the system, and it works!"

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  • Rated 0 out of 5 by 10reviewers.
    Rated 0 out of 5 by I am a mother of a 3yr old and a 1 1/2yr old and errands are my worse night mare, both of them are boys and VERY hyper active, I had to laugh about the drive through because it is so true for me! I will drive 5 min out of my way just to make sure the gas station I am going to has a drive through! November 19, 2014
    Rated 0 out of 5 by I give my toddler a lollipop while in the shopping cart. I buy the organic kind(no artificial colors or flavors). September 15, 2013
    Rated 0 out of 5 by Good article! We already do most of this! On days we have lots to do I try to do a fun activity for my toddler in the middle of things to break it all up a little. Like stop and feed the ducks at a nearby park or 15 minutes at the mall playground or just letting him ride the spaceship ride outside the grocery store. It has worked with my toddler now and my other 3 children when they were toddlers. June 17, 2013
    Rated 0 out of 5 by Very helpful! I love that places like Publix and Old Navy give out balloons, those save my 2 yr old from having her melt down about sitting in the carts. :) April 10, 2013
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