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Gearing up to go potty

You’re eager to get them to the potty. But is it the right time? Here’s some expert advice on how to figure out if your child’s ready to tackle the toilet.
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  1. Acknowledging the potty

    The very first step toward potty-training is having your child understand when he's going to the bathroom. He'll start telling you when he's going or has gone. He'll want his diaper changed immediately because he recognizes that he's uncomfortable. Then you can start introducing the concept of the potty. For example, after he's gone in his diaper, discard it in the toilet and help him flush!

  2. Well, hello potty

    Before you bring your child in contact with the toilet, it may be useful to think about getting a child's potty seat. One idea is to draw a colorful, fun potty out of construction paper and post it next to the actual potty, so that she can associate the drawing with the real thing. Ask her if she would like to use the potty before bath time or after a nap. If she refuses, remain positive and say, "Okay, maybe next time!" If she is excited, follow through with the process.

  3. Big kids go potty

    Once your child sits on the toilet — or even if he just tries — praise him enthusiastically. If he actually goes, giving him a reward such as a piece of candy is one approach but also encourage him after he's done by clapping and saying things like "Good job!" and "Big boys go on the potty!"

  4. Signs of readiness

    Potty training could take about, on average, eight weeks — but this is highly individual. What's just as important as waiting for your child to show readiness is that you pick up on behavior demonstrating that your child might not be ready. Once she sits on the potty, if she doesn't get down to business and starts fiddling with the toilet paper, whining or even crying, for example, then it's time to wait a few more weeks before you start again.

  5. Ditching the diapers

    As the concept of using the toilet becomes more prominent, set your watch every hour and encourage your child to go frequently. Associate certain times of day with going to the bathroom — first thing in the morning, before and after nap/rest time, after lunch, before bed and so forth. And make sure that as a parent, you're frequently and noticeably using the bathroom as well.

  6. Potty pointers

    Don't succumb to pressure, and don't pass pressure on. Although your friends may be potty training their children or have a child who, they say, "self-trained at 18 months," don't feel as if your child is not as advanced because he lacks the physical readiness to use the potty. Remember, your child must be physically independent in addition to being emotionally ready. Some kids, too, need to decide that the benefits of being a "big kid" and wearing underwear outweigh the convenience of diapers.

The best advice overall is to stay positive and enthusiastic — both for you and for your child — and remember what parents who have been there say: "Don't worry — she's not going to go to college in diapers!"

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    Rated 0 out of 5 by more information give ideas for potty train thanks alot August 14, 2014
    Rated 0 out of 5 by Good info for parents to have knowledge of when its time to potty train. August 11, 2014
    Rated 0 out of 5 by The whole pressure thing is so very true. I found myself starting to feel really pressured to get my daughter to hurry up and learn how to use the potty. I even felt like maybe I was doing something wrong. It's reasuring to read articles that let you know what you can expect, and that it's normal if they don't immediately catch on. August 8, 2014
    Rated 0 out of 5 by Interesting article. My older two were complete opposites when it came to potty training. My oldest son, now 9 did not potty train until he was well over 3 and continued to have accidents until about 7 years old. My daughter, now 6 trained exceedingly well at the age of two and continued on with almost no accidents at all. My youngest, 26 months old is super excited about being a big boy when it comes to potty training however, he had a poor experience with his daycare and contracted multiple yeast infections and even MRSA from utilizing the potty there. Unfortunately, this has been quite a set back. The daycare is a wonderful place but you cannot control other children and what they bring into the center. I hope that when we get down to business, the 8 week timeline will apply. Personally, I am done with stinky diapers! August 7, 2014
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