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Gearing up to go potty

You’re eager to get them to the potty. But is it the right time? Here’s some expert advice on how to figure out if your child’s ready to tackle the toilet.
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  1. Acknowledging the potty

    The very first step toward potty-training is having your child understand when he's going to the bathroom. He'll start telling you when he's going or has gone. He'll want his diaper changed immediately because he recognizes that he's uncomfortable. Then you can start introducing the concept of the potty. For example, after he's gone in his diaper, discard it in the toilet and help him flush!

  2. Well, hello potty

    Before you bring your child in contact with the toilet, it may be useful to think about getting a child's potty seat. One idea is to draw a colorful, fun potty out of construction paper and post it next to the actual potty, so that she can associate the drawing with the real thing. Ask her if she would like to use the potty before bath time or after a nap. If she refuses, remain positive and say, "Okay, maybe next time!" If she is excited, follow through with the process.

  3. Big kids go potty

    Once your child sits on the toilet — or even if he just tries — praise him enthusiastically. If he actually goes, giving him a reward such as a piece of candy is one approach but also encourage him after he's done by clapping and saying things like "Good job!" and "Big boys go on the potty!"

  4. Signs of readiness

    Potty training could take about, on average, eight weeks — but this is highly individual. What's just as important as waiting for your child to show readiness is that you pick up on behavior demonstrating that your child might not be ready. Once she sits on the potty, if she doesn't get down to business and starts fiddling with the toilet paper, whining or even crying, for example, then it's time to wait a few more weeks before you start again.

  5. Ditching the diapers

    As the concept of using the toilet becomes more prominent, set your watch every hour and encourage your child to go frequently. Associate certain times of day with going to the bathroom — first thing in the morning, before and after nap/rest time, after lunch, before bed and so forth. And make sure that as a parent, you're frequently and noticeably using the bathroom as well.

  6. Potty pointers

    Don't succumb to pressure, and don't pass pressure on. Although your friends may be potty training their children or have a child who, they say, "self-trained at 18 months," don't feel as if your child is not as advanced because he lacks the physical readiness to use the potty. Remember, your child must be physically independent in addition to being emotionally ready. Some kids, too, need to decide that the benefits of being a "big kid" and wearing underwear outweigh the convenience of diapers.

The best advice overall is to stay positive and enthusiastic — both for you and for your child — and remember what parents who have been there say: "Don't worry — she's not going to go to college in diapers!"

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    Rated 0 out of 5 by Really glad to be reminded NOT to compete with other parents who are potty training their kids. Hard not to do that. October 15, 2014
    Rated 0 out of 5 by My son likes to use the potty only in the morning after breakfast and we always have a huge celebration for him. October 11, 2014
    Rated 0 out of 5 by I know I shouldn't worry about my son using potty till he's ready but having a newborn does make it difficult no matter if i leave him in diapers or potty train. Hopefully no diapers by college lol October 10, 2014
    Rated 0 out of 5 by my son is now 3 and uses the potty mostly when he has to go pee. He knows all the signs and knows when he is wet he wakes up every morning dry now and goes straight to the potty to go pee and i encourage him and praise him and he get a sticker in the morning or chocolate milk he seems to just get side tracked through out the day and he just started preschool and he will not use the potty there so i am working on it at home until he get it down and then having them encourage him through out the morning since he only goes 8:15-11:00. He working on it and these article help me a whole lot. Thanks September 27, 2014
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