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4 Ways to Get Dad to Do Diapers (Hint: Start Now!)

Worried you have a diaper-duty dodger on your hands? Try our foolproof guide to getting Dad to do his fair share. Because you’re in this together—for better or for poop.
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1. Practice, practice, practice. Even if you tried diapering at a birth-prep class, keep it up at home. Grab a baby doll, dipes and wipes, and make a date out of it. Maybe it’s not quite as fun as going to the movies, but we promise you’ll be giggling before you know it.

2. Discuss doodie duty. It’s smart to talk about diapering expectations during pregnancy so you and Dad are on the same page before junior arrives. As you practice diapering, you could say something funny but pointed like, “Honey, I’m going to be counting on you to help with diapers—you know, until the baby’s in college. You’re in, right?”

3. Get him a cool Dad bag. “I bought my husband a very hip-but-manly diaper bag: black leather, sleek, no teddy bears or pastels anywhere. I packed it with necessities and gave it to him about a month before our son was born,” says Nina Johnson, a mom of two from Durango, Colorado. “It did the trick. He was proud to carry it around and actually put it to use.” Yes, it’s the gift that keeps on giving, and it sends a clear message: “You’ll be changing diapers too, Daddio.”

4. Let him know that Dads who diaper are sexy. Seriously! Watching your guy diaper your newborn will show you a whole other amazing side of him, and mentioning that can help him get past any lingering hesitations. He’ll be happy, you’ll be happy—everyone wins.

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    Rated 0 out of 5 by Some times its very hard to get dad involved when he doesn't live with us and only visits occasionally. March 27, 2015
    Rated 0 out of 5 by These are all good suggestions but my husband has always jumped right in. He has been in the delivery room for all four of our children and he appreciates what I go through with having our healthy babies, naturally. He is always the first one to change a diaper. March 25, 2015
    Rated 0 out of 5 by I found the "let him know diapering is sexy" tip to be insulting, actually. It seems I've read far too many articles on how to get men/husbands/fathers to pull their weight in the spheres of marriage and parenting. This "tell him you find it sexy" gambit is awfully tired. (According to the internet, I'm now supposed to regard stuff like him cleaning the kitchen or giving the kids a bath as "choreplay." When have I ever read anything suggesting that a mother be commended and rewarded for doing any parenting-related task? NEVER. March 24, 2015
    Rated 0 out of 5 by Tell him you've been doing this all day and now it's his turn. It's that simple. March 18, 2015
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